"The Christmases we remember best usually have little to do with worldly goods but a lot to do with the spirit of caring, the spirit of love, and the spirit of compassion."
-President Thomas S. Monson
Caleb (almost 8) and Caitlin (4 years old and on chemotherapy)I was reading the Ensign the other day and came across this quote. It made me think of the year I experienced the true meaning of Christmas.
Caitlin was diagnosed with a brain tumor on December 28, 2001 and then relapsed 10 months later, in early November 2002. The relapse was even harder than the initial diagnosis due to knowing more about Caitlin's type of cancer and how a relapse lessened her chances of survival. As the holidays approached I felt hopeless and scared. We were up to our eyeballs in chemotherapy and I just didn't care about gifts, decorations, or anything else that required effort or cheerfulness. I wanted a miracle for my daughter and our family.
The miracle didn't come in the form of healing, but in the form of caring, love, and compassion- those very things President Monson mentioned. These sweet acts of service and love came from my husband and children, from my extended family, from our neighbors, friends, and church members, from our medical team, and from our community. I realized in our trial we were given the best gifts of the season.
This Christmas we are aware of several close friends who are hurting and struggling with trials far larger than what our family has experienced. It is my hope that I can find many opportunities to serve, show love, and lighten a burden, making this another Christmas to remember.
5 comments:
You are so awesome Jamie! Seriously, people just feel better talking with you. I met a mom in the hospital and I kept thinking about how you always say the exact thing they need to hear and kept wishing I had that same ability. She was struggling. I so much wanted to just give her a hug and tell her "you CAN do this". You would have known exactly what to do and say.
I agree with Vicky. For all of you who read this blog, Jamie was there to save my life early on. She took our family under her wing and made us feel liked we belonged with someone who understood this roller coaster ride. You are so giving and loving. I miss you. Let's do lunch-or breakfast-or a snack-or hot chocolate or....
I loved President Monson's message too. When I go shopping and feel all the stress around me, I remember what is most important...family, friends, and giving or ourselves. I think all of you CM moms are amazing, I can only hope to "grow up" as wise as you all. Hugs.
Thanks for sharing a beautiful thought with us. It is easy to get frazzled this time of year. The Christmas that Rachel was on chemo I remember feeling immensely blessed just to all be home together and have a whole day without any medical crisis or trip to the hospital.
Jamie, you brought me into the group, too. You are more incredible than you realize.
And Shari, I think that we need to do lunch, breakfast, and dessert!
you are amazing jamie! the more i learn about you the more amazing you are!
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